Sizing is the part parents get wrong most often, and it matters more for children than for adults. A sleeping bag warms you by trapping a thin layer of air your body heats. When a bag is much longer than the child, the empty space at the foot fills with air the child's smaller body cannot warm — so a "too big" bag actually sleeps colderthan a well-fitted one with the same temperature rating. REI's buying guidance makes the same point: excess room at the foot, head, or shoulders reduces warmth because there is more air to heat. It is also a safety issue for the youngest campers — SectionHiker and parenting-outdoor reviewers note that small children can slide down inside an oversized bag, which both chills them and is a suffocation risk.
Size to fits-to height, not age.Every kids bag lists a maximum height it fits (shown in the table above). Measure your child and pick the bag whose fits-to number is closest above their current height. Age labels are only a rough proxy — kids of the same age vary widely, and buying a size up "to grow into" is the classic mistake that leaves a child cold tonight. Tales of a Mountain Mama, a long-running kids-gear review site, sizes the same way: match the bag's stated height range to the child in front of you.
Use the sizing-down features instead of buying big.The bags that genuinely grow with a child do it without leaving cold air: the REI Kindercone's built-in stuff sack cinches the bag shorter for a smaller kid and lets it out later; the Kelty Big Dipper's spiral-zip foot box adds a full 12 inches only when you need it; and pad-sleeve bags like the Big Agnes Little Red and NEMO Punk lock the child onto their sleeping pad so they cannot slide into the cold foot of the bag. These are the details that turn one purchase into three or four seasons of use — a far better strategy than sizing up.
One more warmth lever: a sleeping pad. Much of a child's heat loss goes downward into the ground, so pairing any of these bags with an insulated kids pad does as much for warmth as a colder temperature rating. For pad options, see our best sleeping pads guide.